A few months ago, I started meeting with my counselor again to help deal with grief and the pressures of being a caretaker. I shared a poem with him that I had written about life and the background behind it. After hearing it, he encouraged me to publish it. Although, I’ve not done that yet, I will always remember his encouragement. He said, “Keep writing no matter how dark it may seem because I am certain that God’s light will shine through.” It somehow gave me relief because internally, I don’t think people really want to deal with death or discuss it, for that matter. Maybe, I have been “people” because it is certainly difficult to process.
Don’t worry, if you are one of these “people” my blog will not focus solely on death but hopefully, it will be a commentary on life with all of its joys and pains. However, since my youngest daughter, Kelyn, recently passed, I must admit that I will be processing my thoughts through my writing. I hope that my transparency will help someone who is grieving right now. You are not alone. I am praying for you.
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4/21/2020 11:12:16 am
My Love,
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Francemise
4/23/2020 01:16:18 am
Thank you, Love! You're the best! I love you!
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Cassie
4/21/2020 11:14:15 am
I am so encouraged by you, your words and your works. Beauty for ashes. Xo
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Francemise
4/23/2020 12:30:51 am
So glad to hear this! Love you too!
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Katie
4/22/2020 04:03:01 am
Yes! This is a great idea. I am so thankful you are sharing your beauty with us.
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Francemise
4/23/2020 12:32:30 am
Thank you, Katie!
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Bettie H Kingsberry
4/23/2020 10:38:25 am
You are helping so many people heal in so many ways. There is no guideline in dealing with death, marriage, parenting or just coping with getting old. God has really given you a gift. you express life situation humbly and transparently. We can relate and understand. Love you
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Francemise
4/24/2020 10:21:50 am
Thank you so much, Bettie! You have been so encouraging in to me. God bless you and love you too.
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Ritta
4/23/2020 01:05:05 pm
I’m beyond proud of you! I’m so excited to see your amazing gifts being put to use to benefit us all. Your transparency will bring healing to so many! Thanks for sowing these seeds...
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Francemise
4/24/2020 10:22:56 am
Dear Ritta,
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Taryn
4/24/2020 04:10:33 am
My dear friend, I'm so proud of you and excited for your new journey! I know it isn't easy but I'm so glad God put it in your heart to share your thoughts. You've inspired me in so many ways and enhanced the lives of those around you. I know the world is ready for your greatness!
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Francemise
4/24/2020 10:32:54 am
Taryn!!!! Thank you for being a blessing in my life. I love and appreciate you!
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