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To Do or not to do...

11/6/2023

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Today, on my birthday, I enter this new year with gratitude and thankfulness. I am so happy to be alive! I am currently home, recovering from a recent, emergency surgery. As a result, I have had no choice but to rest as my body heals. Being still can be very difficult and constraining, however, it is a necessary part of getting better--so here I sit, making the most of this time.

In order to rest, you must be able to trust that things will be handled and that you will be taken care of. Thankfully, Hassan takes our marital vows seriously and has risen to the challenge of serving and caring for me “through sickness and in health!” I realize that I have to actively tell myself to sit/lay down and receive the help as I’m usually the caregiver. It is a struggle, lol. So, I guess it's best to look on the bright side of things...
 
There are benefits to resting:
  1. You can recharge and be rejuvenated. 
  2. Time to reflect and get direction from God.
  3. Complete unfinished projects/or catch up on reading. 
  4. Relaxation time and recovery.
  5. Enjoy quality time with loved ones. (Sometimes, being too busy robs us of this.)
  6. Be in the moment. Since I have no choice but to rest, why not enjoy it?
What does resting look like to you? Are you making time to rest?
I look forward to doing these things over the next couple of weeks and to reading your responses!
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12 Comments
Hassan Kingsberry link
11/6/2023 12:04:28 pm

For the Lord God, the Holy One of Israel has said this, “In returning [to Me] and rest you shall be saved, In quietness and confident trust is your strength.”
-Isaiah 30:15

Love you, Baby! ❤️

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Francemise Kingsberry
11/6/2023 12:20:09 pm

Amen! This is a great scripture and reminder to chill out! Love you, Hassan!

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Janice
11/6/2023 12:29:48 pm

I’m sorry about your surgery but it’s good for you to rest and allow yourself to receive recover so you may be able to resume to your desired life. My family and I pray you recover fast enjoy your birthday WOG

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Francemise Kingsberry
11/15/2023 08:38:47 am

Thank you so much, my friend. God bless you!

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Jackie
11/6/2023 01:51:13 pm

Praying for a speedy recovery. Relax and enjoy your birthday. You have wonderful people taking care of you.

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Francemise Kingsberry
11/15/2023 09:16:52 am

Thank you! I had a good birthday. Different but good.

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Jasmine Redfear
11/8/2023 04:33:44 am

Thank you for your transparency. I’ve been struggling with having to rest and recover after my surgery next week because I know so many things at work will need my attention, but I know I’ll need the time to bounce back. (No fun). Rest up big sis!! 💕💕

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Francemise Kingsberry
11/15/2023 09:18:46 am

Thanks, Sis! Please try to rest!! I will be praying for you!

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Bettie Kingsberry
11/13/2023 12:34:52 pm

Enjoy your much needed rest, you are loved❤️🙏🏿❤️

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Francemise Kingsberry
11/15/2023 09:20:30 am

Thank you. I love you too!

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NeTasha Miller
11/14/2023 02:07:25 pm

Hi! Sorry to hear this but glad you are okay. Rest well and take care of yourself. Sending prayers for a speedy recovery your way! 🤗 ❤️

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Francemise Kingsberry
11/15/2023 09:29:59 am

Thank you so much! It is much appreciated!

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